SOCIOLOGY OF THE FILIPINO LUZVIMINDA MASON
Presented by Norberto Bautista, PM
on July 15, 2006
"Filipino" in this
presentation refers to the Filipino Masons of the Lodge
Good Afternoon Brothers!
The WM gave me the liberty of speaking on a topic that is non-Masonic in
nature. Though not related to the craft,
nonetheless, I believe that the information I will share today will enhance the
understanding of our interpersonal relationship as Masonic Brothers belonging
to two cultures.
I initially selected “the sociology of the
Filipino Freemason”. After browsing the
two college textbooks I ordered from the
I will speak briefly about Filipino
values and characteristics. Because I
belong to this ethnic group, I take the liberty of being a social critique and
assure myself free from contempt of others and from others.
What are values? Values are an expression of the ultimate end,
goal or purpose of social action. Values
are deep-rooted motivations for behaviors.
I cannot but overemphasize that values are manifested by how a group or
an individual behave in society. An
object or concept has a value when it is perceived as good and if it is
desirable or not. The desire to acquire
them influences attitudes and behavior.
Examples are food, money and house.
It also comes in intangible concepts such as truth, honesty and
justice. Examples of values in our
fraternity that we adhere to are temperance, fortitude, prudence, justice,
discretion, morality, silence, secrecy, etc.
To start with. Look
at the Filipino-American brother next to you.
Chances are, at some point in his life, he lived in any of the 7100
islands of the Philippine Archipelago.
His pronunciation of words, his accent and his intonation may be totally
different from the Filipino-American brother next to him. Besides English, he can speak any one or
more of the 8 major languages from among the 84 major ethnolinguistic
dialects. Except for a few, most
Filipino-American brothers came to the
The Philippine society revolves
around social classes of people.
Historically, economic power begets political power, and political power
begets social power. And with many years
of unusual, some may term as corruption, political power begets economic
power. In cursory analysis, the
Filipinos are socially segregated as a result of the economic differences. This differences influence one’s behaviors –
with, for and against each other.
What then are the
major characteristics of a Filipino brother?
1. The Compadre
or padrino system initiated the
Filipino into the practice of extended families. On a positive note and an advantage for
immigrants like us, this value system has enlarged our social network by
adopting family friends as virtual relatives, the bonding of which are
sometimes more intense than with real blood relatives. This is manifested when one sees a young
Filipino respectfully addressing the brother Mason as “Tito” (Uncle) and his
wife as “Tita” (Aunt). You have heard many times when
Filipino-American brothers are around and call the ladies (wives or girlfriends
of the brother) as “sister”. The
rationale is simple - because the husband is a brother, it just appropriate to
call his wife or lady a sister. The
bonding then goes beyond the tyled recesses of the
lodge room.
Negatively, however, this has
served to strengthen the notorious and negative social practice of nepotism
and favoritism. In other words,
this value system has corrupted our sense of fairness and plain dealings with
others who are not within our circle. In
our fraternity, this is manifested by the existence of virtual or even real
head honchos or leaders of the pack.
Unfortunately, this head honchos are the very people who willfully
violate the age-old tradition of not recruiting members into our
fraternity.
The result of inviting cowans manifests another Filipino value that has taken a
more negative turn than positive – which we call “utang
na loob” or debt of
gratitude. This is the theory of
reciprocity which states that if A gives something to
B, it is expected that B will return the favor to A in some future time. If not, the interpersonal relationship
between A and B breaks down. In essence,
this is parallel to, but not quite the same as to what Americans refer to as
“you owe me one” for a favor done to another.
To the Filipino, the debt of gratitude goes beyond the grave and its
payment is endless, or otherwise, one would be branded as “walang
utang na loob” or ingrate or ungrateful. I still hear quite a few Filipino-American
brothers who are beholden to another brother or a head honcho that introduced
him to Masonry. I would rather think
that all of us became Masons on our own free will and accord, thereby
maintaining one’s independence of thinking – to be a true freemason, a free
thinker, free from ignorance. A brother
who was "recruited" misses the point when as an EA candidate,
we were asked on whom we put our trust - that is to God and not to the person
who influenced us into Masonry.
2. The “bahala
na” or the "come what may” mentality has led
to a lack of foresight, the contentment with the past or the status quo, the
indolence, the lack of initiative, the lack of self self-reliance or the lack
of pioneering spirit. There is no regard
for planning and one leaves the outcome of future events to faith or
chance. Related to these value system
(lack of initiative, lack of self reliance or lack of pioneering spirit), the
Filipino has a “segurista” mentality which
means that one demands a demonstration of assured success.
“Bahala na” also leads to the practice of “Filipino time”. When one invites you to a formal dinner at
6:30 AM and you are diabetic, be sure you will have some stash of fast-acting
carbohydrates because chances are, dinner will be serve an hour much later than
the appointed time. “Bahala
na” is a disservice to the guest who is prompt.
The Filipinos cannot be blamed
entirely for this value, as our colonial masters for 370 years, the Spaniards
have taught us to rationalize our predicament, our poverty our subjugation -
having us believe that we will be rewarded in heaven as it is outlined in the
Christian's seven beatitudes.
The creation of LuzViMinda
was met with resistance because its organizers has not
and that time cannot demonstrate assured success. However, its founders believed that taking
this pioneering spirit is much better than taking over dying lodges and basking
over elderly and older member's hard-earned lodge resources.
3. There is a tendency for Filipinos
to meet with contempt and not support a cause, an activity or an idea of
another Filipino. It is referred to the “crab
mentality” evident by a passive or even an active participation in pulling
down or wishing failure of a compatriot.
It could be motivated by all or any of the following: envy, jealousy, retribution, retaliation,
distrust, arrogance or simply ignorance if not innocence.
Crab mentality
describes a way of thinking best described by the phrase "if I can't have
it, neither can I allow you." The metaphor refers to a pot of crabs in
which one tries to escape over the side, but is relentlessly pulled down by the
others in the pot.
4. “Amor propio” is the superhigh self-esteem and is
manifested in extreme sensitivity to hurt feeling and insults - real or
imagined. It is the Filipino’s
sensitivity to criticism; his inability to accept criticism; and his
interpretation of criticism as a personal insult. Some Filipinos still thinks that
5. The society in its social structure
is described as paternalistic just because it is the male that dominates the
nuclear family. It is also feudalistic
in its practices -
people assume roles of leadership in social groups based on
economic status.
6. The Filipino has an obsession to
title, real or made up. Education
has become a status symbol; an announcement to the community that one is
different, one is above the rest.
Growing up in the
7. The Filipino has a “balimbing” attitude alluding to a behavior that he will
easily change horse in the middle of a race.
Balimbing in English is “starfruit”
named as such because when cut crosswise, the fruit will have the shape of a
star. It is multi-faced as opposed to
multi-faceted. Such as was evident when
a few blue lodges under the Grand Oriente de Espana and Sovereign Grand Lodge of the Philippine
Archipelago pledged allegiance to the GL of California in the 1900’s. The Spanish Empire then, was loosing its
status as a world power at the turn of the century while the
8. Over enthusiasm with no follow up
or provision for continuity and maintenance of an endeavor describes the
Filipino behavior of “ningas-kugon”. It is grassfire in summer, easy come easy
goes. There is the lack of planning and
leaves the course of events to faith tied up to the "bahala
na" attitude. It is anathema to the "segurista"
attitude previously described. This is
one which the LVM organizers have successfully hurdled.
9. The Filipino is “gaya-gaya” or imitative – especially in the performing
arts. Hence, you can hear of the Elvis
Presley of the
Lastly, my brothers, you must be a Filipino, if you got
offended to what I just mentioned.
Panopio, Isabel S., Cordero-MacDonald, Felicidad and Raymundo, Adelisa .
(1994). Sociology focus on the
Hunt,
Others, as was suggested by brother Filipino Masons after
this presentation. . .
your must be a Filipino (YMBAF), if you,
1. “are hele-hel
bago quiere” that is, you adamantly refused to sing using
the Karaoke microphone, even threatening to leave the party and yet waited for
your turn again and again and again and again even though you only had one
Budweiser lite for the last 2 hours of the party.
2. when it was obvious that you had a
fight with your spouse - when during the potluck, your share was 8-pc Kentucky
Fried Chicken meal and not either of these: chicken pork adobo,
pancit bihon, pancit palabok or lumpiang
shanghai;
3. were trying to cover up that fight,
by bringing the family’s 10-cup rice cooker that your wife started for
tonight’s dinner;
4. as when they are about to leave,
you force your non-Filipino guests, as a token or party favors, to brown bag
food even if they tell you many, many, many times that they do not eat dinuguan or kare-kare with bagoong;
5. On the other hand, YMBAF, if you
brown bag party trays within half an hour of the start of a party and you must
be that Filipino’s kid, if your mom or dad ordered you to bring to the party a
plastic sack and a marking pen and a take-home tupperware
and a roll of aluminum foil;
6. you speak proudly, so eloquently and
so authoritatively of balut or the hard boiled
duck embryo as a Filipino delicacy even if you have not eaten one in your
lifetime. You could be the same Filipino
if you mistaken the itlog na maalat (or salted red egg)
from that of a balut;
7. you reinforced your non-Filipino
friend’s belief and is so proud, that there exist a Filipino Mafia, rather than
project the positive image that this ethnic group is full of community or bayanihan spirit and sense of belongingness;
8. Lastly, my friends, you must be a
Filipino, if after this presentation, you will criticize my thesis - as you are
matampuhin or maramdamin
- or mataas ang amor propio.